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Hi, I’m Paul. I went from being a recording and performing musician to being a psychotherapist, professor, relationship coach, researcher, writer, podcast host, and conference speaker. Just as music allows musicians to express feelings through sound, psychotherapy can be like an instrument that allows you and I to collaborate and understand how you make meaning in life through talking and self-reflecting.




Many therapists stick to professional activity in their office and carry a large caseload of clients. I believe working this way can and often does put a lot of therapists at risk for burning out and losing objectivity, which of course, affects client care.


I’ve learned that I am most resourceful and emotionally available to you when I limit the size of my caseload, and then dedicate the non-clinical hours in my schedule to other professional activities that directly benefit your case.


Psychology is not “just my career.” It is my life passion. I have aimed to become a well-informed professional, and part of that journey has involved taking on multiple roles.  I’ve taught psychology at the undergraduate and graduate level, have performed and published academic research, am the co-host of a podcast about relationships, a writer, relationship coach, and a speaker at psychology conferences internationally.


Another way in which I’ve committed myself to a high standard of practice is by engaging with multiple disciplines related to psychology and psychotherapy, including: anthropology, neuroscience, philosophy, religion, history, marketing, politics, gender and multicultural studies.


Finally, I reserve considerable time each week to practice thorough case conceptualization. This means that I reflect deeply on the work I’m doing with my clients in therapy, read literature that is directly related to my cases, and seek continuing education and supervision opportunities to advance my work with you.


Basically, I’m not just working on your case during our face-to-face time, but I am devoting my professional efforts outside of the therapy hour in a way that benefits both your care and my professional development.




My academic tenure was a full-time seven-year experience. During my undergraduate studies, I regularly achieved academic honors. When I earned my master of arts degree in Counseling Psychology, I graduated at the top of my class. I also founded and co-chaired my alma mater’s Gender Equality Committee and pioneered a social justice campaign at my internship site, so I’ve also taken an interest in sociocultural issues and leadership.


After my schooling concluded, I completed my clinical training for licensure in a community mental health clinic working with underserved populations. At the same time, I began teaching several psychology courses to undergraduate and graduate students, training other therapists, conducting additional research, presenting my writing at conferences internationally, and holding a position on the executive board of the Rhode Island Association for Psychoanalytic Psychologies – an official chapter of Division 39 of the American Psychological Association. I was later awarded one of the Early Career Scholar Awards by Division 39 (Psychoanalysis) of the American Psychological Association. More recently, I joined the Postgraduate Fellowship Program at the Massachusetts Institute for Psychoanalysis.


In total, I have been practicing clinical work for nearly a decade and in a wide variety of settings, including private practice, college counseling centers, group homes, nursing homes, and outreach programs. I have worked with individuals ages 3 to 85, and from a wide range of sociocultural backgrounds.


For a complete list of my professional credentials, click here.




People usually contact me because of a relationship issue, a family dilemma, difficulties in everyday living, cultural identity concerns, or a history of a psychological trauma that interferes with living a satisfying life.


Many of my clients are successful in their career or academic pursuits, and often at the expense of overlooking other areas of their life. Their self-care practices are neglected, or their relationships lack vitality and meaning, for example. But because they’re often bright people, they have a difficult time ignoring that something feels “off.”


Many clients who seek me out have also had prior therapy experience without lasting results, or they have read self-help literature. I’m not surprised when my clients come to me already knowing a thing or two about psychology.


In any case, my clients seek therapy for a variety of reasons, but they all know that they want to “go deeper” into themselves in therapy. It is their hope that therapy will help them access a place within where they can start to use their issues rather than being used by them.




I believe in adjusting each therapy to fit the client, rather than adjusting the client to fit the therapy. I listen very deeply to what you choose to share with me, respect what you’re not ready to share, and I use my clinical expertise and academic (research) background in considering how I can be most useful to you moment-by-moment. I believe that good psychotherapy outcome depends on a good therapeutic relationship. There is a robust amount of scientific research supporting this idea.


Regarding specific theories or conceptual ways of thinking about clinical concerns, I draw from a wide array of clinical frameworks, including (but not limited to): relational psychoanalysis, humanistic therapies, family constellations, positive psychology, and multicultural/social psychology.




I discuss fee arrangements privately with clients.




My practice is located at 185 Devonshire St. Suite 502, Boston, MA 02110. This office is located in the Financial District of downtown Boston. I am a very brief walk from the Park Street, Downtown Crossing, State Street, and Government Center subway stations, and there are many parking garages in the area as well.


You can arrange an appointment with me by calling my business line during normal business hours, Monday-Friday, 9:00 am – 5:30 pm, at 828-738-2128. If I am unable to attend to your call right away, please leave a message, and I will return your call within 24 business hours unless the outgoing message on my voicemail specifies otherwise.